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- NLP: APPLIED MAGIC
- by Brandy Williams
- One: Matching Representations
-
- In studying magic I've been exposed to a lot of related
- fields--history, mythology, music--which enrich my understanding
- of my vocation. One of the most helpful series of books I've
- encountered is a set of five volumes starting with The Structure
- of Magic I. and II. which focus on... psychology.
-
- John Grinder and Richard Bandler developed the field they
- called Neuro Linguistic Programming, or NLP. One reason I
- suggest everyone I know become familiar with it is that they've
- taught this stuff to salespeople, managers, Pentagon employees...
- I see their techniques on television commercials and read about
- them in seminar descriptions. NLP is a people manipulator par
- excellance, and I think it's important others are made aware of
- this.
-
- Another reason is that it's so incredibly useful.
-
- Consider this: "The meaning of a communication is the
- response you get." In their terms, an elegant phrase. It's
- changed my entire relationship with others. If I don't make
- myself clear, I don't blame the listener. I restate my case,
- maybe trying a different body language, a different representa-
- tional system, a little pacing...
-
- Representational system? Well, what senses do we use to
- explore the world? Sight--hearing--touch, and taste and smell to
- a much lesser extent. So how do we think? In images, sounds and
- feelings--or, in NLP terms, in visual, auditory and kinesthetic
- representational systems.
-
- What's interesting is that we all make images and sounds and
- feelings to store experience, but we're usually only conscious of
- using ONE system. The words we choose to describe our experi
- ences reflect that: "I'm not very fo cused and I can't see what
- you're saying." Or, "I've got a handle on the feeling that's
- been bugging me." Or, "I hear that, it sounds like it will
- work."
-
- Spend one hour listening to people and you can verify this.
- Now, if I say, "I just can't feel good about that," and the
- person I'm talking to says "I don't see what's wrong with it," my
- communication hasn't received the response I want. If I switch
- to my partner's most favored representational system and say,
- "Let me make that clear to you. It looks like a really bad
- situation," that's one way to match, or pace my partner.
-
- See what I mean? Or maybe that gives you a feel for the
- power of this particular "psychology".
-
- What does any of this have to do with paganism or magic?
- For starters, I wonder how many circle conflicts could be solved
- by something as simple as accomodating each other's most favored
- rep. system.
-
- In a working circle, is someone having trouble visualizing a
- goal? Is someone else very good at constructing mental temples,
- but totally unable to feel when to release the energy? Put them
- together, get them to trade notes and teach each other; both
- skills are part of the same experience.
-
- When you direct rituals, do you always include something to
- see or imagine, hear or sing, feel--in the body or tactually? Do
- your rituals work for some people and not others? You might
- check to be sure you're satisfying everyone's most favored rep.
- system.
-
- The function of magic is the response you get.
-
- BIBLIOGRAPHY
- Works by John Grindler and Richard Bandler:
- The Structure of Magic I.
- The Structure of Magic II.
- Frogs into Princes
- Reframing
- Trance-formations
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- NLP: APPLIED MAGIC
- by Brandy Williams
- TWO- Inside/Outside
-
- Remember representational systems? The idea that humans
- think in images, sounds, and feelings?
-
- While we're calling up images (a process called accessing),
- we're not able to look at what's going on in front of us. While
- we're listening to music, we're not able to remember our favorite
- song. While we're feeling our shoulders for tension, we're not
- aware of the touch of cloth against our skin. Seeing with the
- mind's eye and the physical eye are mutually exclusive processes.
-
- In Neuro Linguistic Programming, accessing -- thinking -- is
- called downtime, and obersving with the senses is labelled
- uptime.
-
- I run uptime as a meditation. Try this: for three minutes,
- look at the colors in front of you, the textures of surfaces,
- shapes... listen to the volume and pitch of all sounds in your
- vicinity... feel the surface you're sitting on, your hand
- touching something in front of you...
-
- The next time you generate an internal image, talk to
- yourself, feel your stomach tightening -- notice the difference.
- It's the difference between accessing and observing, downtime and
- uptime, external and internal reality.
-
- One thing that I notice about uptime is that it links to the
- concept 'sacred'. When I take a walk by the river, I watch the
- water rippling over rocks, listen to the white noise of the
- current, feel the moist air touching my skin. I bring myself out
- of my own internal creations and allow myself to live in the
- world.
-
- Another thing I notice about uptime is that some people
- don't do it very much. Most of us drop into internal reality
- when our environment is unpleasant, and that's a very useful
- thing to be able to do. But then a lot of people forget to come
- back out-- come to their senses, literally -- and experience the
- world again.
-
- Such people are very difficult to talk to. When I have a
- conversation, I like my partner to be listening to what I say,
- and watching my body language. More often, my partner is acces
- sing some internal meaning for, or response to, what I'm saying.
- That internal meaning may or may not have anything to do with
- what I'm communicating.
-
- It isn't possible to observe someone (with all senses) when
- we're accessing. It isn't possible to achieve rapport with a
- person we're not observing. One of the bases of magical group
- workings is rapport between the participants.
-
- Try this: the next time you have a conversation about magic,
- observe your partner. Watch for: body position and gestures.
- Often people I talk to demonstrate what they feel when they do
- magic. [A woman describing her circle method moved her hand from
- her forehead down toward her feet, from shoulder to shoulder, and
- from her heart straight in front of her -- gesturing the three
- energy poles a circle creates.]
-
- Listen for: sensory descriptions --"I saw, I heard, I felt."
-
- Learning to go into uptime at will, and differentiate our
- representations of reality from our observations, is perhaps the
- most useful magical skill we can posess. It provides the basis
- for a reality check; it helps us communicate our experiences more
- effectively to others, and to help them duplicate what we do; and
- it is one of the most profound alterations of conasciousness.
-
- - Brandy Williams
-
- ~~~~~~~~~~
- BIBLIOGRAPHY
- Works by Richard Bandler & John Grinder:
- The Structure of Magic I.
- The Structure of Magic II.
- Frogs to Princes
- Reframing
- Trance-formations
-